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Episode 51: The Stoic Responder with Kristofor Healey

Kristofor Healey, is a speaker, author, and former DHS HSI Special agent who spent more than 15 years in federal law enforcement. He is also the host of The Stoic Responder podcast where he uses his experiences in law enforcement and endurance racing to teach Stoic lessons on leadership and overcoming adversity.

He had no plans for a career in law enforcement but after 911, Kris put aside his plans and his purpose shifted and he pursued a career in federal LE.

We discuss his career and then transition to discussing his new book, 𝘐𝘯 𝘝𝘢𝘭𝘰𝘳: 𝟹𝟼𝟻 𝘚𝘵𝘰𝘪𝘤 𝘔𝘦𝘥𝘪𝘵𝘢𝘵𝘪𝘰𝘯𝘴 𝘧𝘰𝘳 𝘍𝘪𝘳𝘴𝘵 𝘙𝘦𝘴𝘱𝘰𝘯𝘥𝘦𝘳𝘴. 

Kris was first introduced to the stoic philosophy when he was a freshman in college and discusses how and how it helped him throughout his career.  He provides an explanation of the philosophy and explains it was born out of hard times and is based on the virtues of wisdom, courage, temperance or moderation, and justice.  Stoicism can be distilled down to the concept of focusing on what we can control rather than the external, or what we cannot control. 

Kris tells us how Stoicism grounded him during a chaotic 3-year period during his career when he uncovered a criminal conspiracy involving his own supervisor and colleagues. 

We talk about the philosophy and how it is a great tool for all first responders.  I had the opportunity to read some of his book before we spoke, but have read even more since then. 

The book is organized so that there is an entry for every day of the year.  Each month has a theme such as truth, discernment, and consistency. I have been enjoying using the book as a resource, the gentle reminder I often need to shift my mindset and perspective.  Each day has a quote, a reflection that integrates the daily theme to the work we do, and a journaling prompt. 

I encourage you to check out Kris’s podcast the Stoic Responder.  Similar to the book, each episode has a theme, a stoic teaching or quote, and its application to current day and its free.

LINKS:

Wendy's - “Building a Wellness Program from the Ground Up” through Justice Clearinghouse.

Kris' Book Link:  In Valor: 365 Meditations for First Responders

Podcast Link:  The Stoic Responder

Website:  KristoforHealey.com

 

Episode 50: Megan Lautz, RD – Realistic Nutrition for First Responders

Megan Lautz, RD – Realistic Nutrition for First Responders

 

As regular listener's know, we talk a lot about the importance of mental health on his podcast, but there are other aspects of our health that are just as important.  Research tells us there is a connection between the types of foods we eat, our mental and emotional health and its impact on things like anxiety and depression.  A lack of essential nutrients can be a contributing factor which is where today’s guest comes in.

Today I speak with Megan Lautz, she is a registered dietician and strength coach who specializes in working with first responders.

Megan currently works full time with Fairfax County Fire and Rescue in Virginia, but she also sees private clients through her business. 

Megan started out in corporate wellness but then transitioned into working with first responders and hasn’t looked back.  She is what I refer to as “culturally competent”, a term you typically hear to describe mental health professionals who understand the unique needs in working with first responders. 

You won’t want to miss this episode.  It’s like having a Masterclass in Nutrition for the First Responder population.  So you may want to have a pen and paper handy or the notes app on your phone cause Megan gives us some great tips. 

Megan’s approach is practical, and she promises not to kale and quinoa you to death. We discuss go-bags for those times you might be held over on shift or stuck on a scene and the best foods and snacks to include.  We discuss topics like gastrointestinal and gut issues, fiber and caffeine intake and how certain foods support brain health and better sleep.  Megan is also able to provide Medical Nutrition Therapy, which means she can work with you on a specialized plan if you have a medical diagnosis such as cancer. 

LINKS:

Linkedin - Megan Lautz

Instagram - rescue.rd

Megan's Website - www.rescuerd.com

ALSO, as I mentioned in the Intro, here are a few additional links to things that I am involved with:

Justice Clearinghouse Course - Building a Wellness Program From the Ground UP

DISCOUNT CODE: For my Guns & Yoga Podcast audience a discount of 20% off for the course is available if you use the promo code: WENDY (all caps).

Link to Kim Colegrove's Podcast: The Well Warrior Show

And, lastly the Women In Federal Law Enforcement (WIFLE) link: 

Wifle.org

Wiflefoundation.org

 

Episode 49: Dr. Renee Thornton - Leading High Performance Cultures

Welcome to the Guns and Yoga Podcast

Today my guest is Dr. Renee Thornton.  Dr. Thornton is an organizational and crisis intervention psychologist, author, entrepreneur, military veteran, mom, and founder of Pathfinder Resilience.

She is passionate about building high performing cultures within the first responder professions, whether it be with her Navigating Adversity program, a self-paced, one of a kind, wellness program with a whole person approach geared towards public safety professionals or her newest endeavor that focuses on leaders.

Dr. Thornton is the epitome of resilience; she shares her personal adversity while growing up and experiencing homelessness and how her experience in the military taught her about leadership.

Dr. Thornton is focused on building high performing cultures and has launched a new initiative geared towards forward thinking agency leaders which she discusses in our conversation.  She gives us a little info about the playbook she’s developed and upcoming retreat and summit for this initiative which you can learn more about on her website, link included in the show notes.

Finally, we talk about a topic that’s been near and dear to my heart lately, Women; specifically, women at work operating within the organizational culture.  Dr. Thornton is writing a book that highlights women’s unique skills and role as agency influencers.  She has noticed in her work that women are typically the ones speaking about self-care.  She believes Women have referential influence within organizations that drive key performance indicators and change within organizations.

Her book is a celebration of what women are naturally good at and what women need to work on; how to best deal with confrontation, boundary setting, and how to have difficult conversations.  Something she says that all women could use some coaching around. 

Links:

Website: https://www.pathfinderresilience.com/

If you find value in the show, please share and give us a review.  As always, if you have questions, feedback, or an idea for a future episode topic, email me at wendy@bluelineyoga.com 

And remember, we are better together!

Wendy

Episode 48: Nate Schweitale - Wichita Police Officer and co-author of - Rooster: What a Homeless Man Taught a Cop

Welcome to the Guns and Yoga Podcast

Today my guest is a former co-worker of mine, Police Officer Nate Schweitale. Nate has worked for the Wichita Police Department for the past 23 years and started the agency’s HOT team, which stands for Homeless Outreach Team. 

Nate is also now a consultant to other agencies looking to implement a HOT team and an author of a new book “Rooster: What a Homeless Man Taught a Cop” which he co-wrote with his childhood friend, Mack Severns. 

Nate and the HOT team have helped over 1200 homeless get into permanent housing contributing to an 86 percent decrease in the area’s chronic homeless population.   I had always known of Nate’s work with the team, but between our conversation and reading his book, I was in awe of his dedication, vulnerability, and courage.

Nate shares some of the stories from the book, his path to creating a nationally recognized program, and his personal journey of forgiveness.

LINKS:

Amazon Link to Nate's Book - Rooster: What a Homeless Man Taught a Cop

Safe Night LLC - Improve Trust, Safety, and Public Safety Practices

Nate's Email: bluelinellc2047@gmail.com

If you find value in the show, please share and give us a review.  As always, if you have questions, feedback, or an idea for a future episode topic, email me at wendy@bluelineyoga.com 

And remember, we are better together!

Wendy

Episode 47: Supporting First Responder Families with the LT’s Daughter, Katherine Boyle

Welcome to the Guns and Yoga Podcast.  My name is Wendy Hummell. 

My guest today is a true inspiration.  Her name is Katherine Boyle, and she created Beyond the Uniform and also hosts a podcast with the same name. Her mission is simple – to support police officers and their families. However, I believe her message and content is relevant to all first responder families. Her emphasis on the importance of creating a healthy, stable, and happy home-life is an extremely relevant, yet often overlooked, aspect of first responder wellness and wellbeing. 

LINKS:

Beyond The Uniform

Linkedin

Instagram

https://theltsdaughter.myflodesk.com/btucommunity

 

If you find value in the show, please share and give us a review.  As always, if you have questions, feedback, or an idea for a future episode topic, email me at wendy@bluelineyoga.com 

And remember, we are better together!

Wendy

 

Tactical Tip Tuesday: How will you upgrade in 2024?

Tactical Tip Tuesday

How will you upgrade in 2024? 

 

Today is Tactical Tip Tuesday where  I share a tip, tool, or dose of inspiration for your week.

LINKS:

Live Your Best Life Using Your Strengths - Gallup Poll

Bring Your Strengths to Life & Live More Fully - VA

Law Enforcement Agency and Officer Resilience Training Program

I hope you enjoy the show, and check us out on Instagram at: @guns_and_yoga_podcast

Wendy

Episode 46: Surviving Retirement with Police Psychologist Dr. Medina Baumgart

Surviving Retirement with Police Psychologist Dr. Medina Baumgart

 

Today, I have a guest who is a subject matter expert on the topic, Dr. Medina Baumgart, an in-house psychologist at a LE Agency and author of “Surviving Retirement: Finding Purpose and Fulfillment Beyond the Badge”. In her role as an in-house psychologist, she conducts counseling, works with peer support, and builds relationships with sworn and civilian members while embedded in their patrol stations. 

But it is her personal experience as the spouse of a retired LEO that inspired her book and course. She openly shares her husband’s struggle with depression and alcohol after retirement as well as her own.  Despite having the tools as a psychologist, she felt helpless to help her own husband. 

Dr. Baumgart walks us through a framework in the book she wants all retirees to know about, which she learned from Dr. Riley Moynes. 

It consists of four phases all retirees can expect to go through: vacation phase, the loss or grief phase, trial and error phase, and if all goes well the reinvent and rewire phase.

Although she never set out to write a book, we discuss how she asked her husband to write everything down that he wanted other cops to know about retirement, and the course and book were born from there.

Although different for everyone, Dr. Baumgart tells us the re-establishment of routine, going to the gym, and tackling projects outside of his comfort zone are some of the ways her husband achieved those last steps in the framework above.

Besides her personal experience, she spoke with over 200 retirees as she researched her book, and many of the issues and challenges were the same.  I shared with her my own struggle with identity and the shame and embarrassment I felt surrounding that.   According to Psychology Today, our identity is a unique blend of our memories, experiences, relationships, and values that create our sense of self.  This mix creates a steady sense of who we are over time, even as new facets are developed and incorporated into one’s identity.  Although I thought I was pretty diverse, if I am being completely honest, my role at work was a big part of who I was. 

I remember hearing one time that you can love your job, but your job can't love you back.  It reminds me of something in Dr. Baumgart's book that her husband said when he turned in his equipment prior to retiring, “I gave you my life, and you handed me a receipt”.

After investing so much, working holidays, overtime, shift work, and trauma exposure the end can feel so cold and transactional. 

The lesson here is preparation, understanding, and support can lend itself to a smoother transition. 

We also discuss the impact our careers have on our physiology and just because you retire, doesn’t mean your nervous system got the memo.  This is something I talk quite a bit about on this podcast, and I have linked an episode covering a variety of tools in here the show notes.

If we don’t provide an outlet or a way to process or complete the stress response, it will come out in ways like arguing, picking fights, anger, and other maladaptive coping mechanisms.  Since our nervous system is wired to protect us from harm, we must learn to self-regulate, which is something Dr. Baumgart addresses in her book. 

I hope you enjoy this episode.

LINKS:

Dr. Baumgart's Website:  www.medinabaumgart.com

Her Book: Surviving Retirement: Finding Purpose and Fulfillment Beyond the Badge

Her on-demand course: www.drbaumgart.com/surviving-retirement 

Her Linkedin

TED talk w/ Dr. Riley Moynes: 4 Phases of Retirement

Guns & Yoga Podcast: Second Mountain Masterclass Series - Finding Meaning Health and Vitality in Retirement:  HERE

 

Episode 45 : David Kennington - Nashville Police Department Wellness Manager

Welcome to the Guns and Yoga Podcast.  My name is Wendy Hummell. 

Before we get into today’s episode, I’d like to share a few things with all of you:

• I will be presenting a couple of free webinars on Justice Clearinghouse. For those of you that don't know, Justice Clearinghouse is a peer-to-peer educational platform geared towards CJ professionals. 
• On December 8^th, I will be presenting “Building a Wellness Program from the Ground Up”.  It is free to watch live, and if you are Justice Clearinghouse member you can access the replay anytime. Please see the link below.
• The December webinar will be an overview of what it takes to implement an organizational wellness program from the ground up. If this is something you are interested to learn more about, I will be releasing a longer course on the Justice Clearinghouse platform early next year, so stay tuned.
• Also, I recently presented a webinar on Justice Clearinghouse called “Side Hustles and Second Careers: Reimagining your Professional Passion After Retirement”, and as a part of the Second Mountain Master class series,  which focuses on retirement I will be breaking down the sections of this webinar in future microcasts and will incorporate additional content, so stay tuned.
• We recently did a giveaway for a guns and yoga hat.  Thank you to all that entered and joined the email list, and congratulations to the winner - Katherine Boyle.         . 

Now on to today’s episode where I share a conversation with David Kennington, the Manager for the Professional Wellness Section at the Nashville Metro Police Department.  David is a licensed professional counselor and manages civilian counselors and the sworn arm of the wellness unit.

Not only is David a trailblazer in the first responder wellness space, but he has come to be a trusted mentor and friend.  We met a few years back when I was early into my role as the Health and Wellness Manager at my agency.  Through a program called CRITAC, which we discuss in the episode, our agency was paired with David’s along with another subject matter expert, Sherri Martin, National FOP Wellness Coordinator, who was a previous guest on the show.

David and I continue to stay connected and he has been an integral part of our wellness programs success.  Because of his guidance, an unexpected benefit of our relationship through the CRITAC program, which included site visits, was our own unit’s expansion.  We were able to go from one full time person, me, to now three full time employees in our unit, one of which is an in-house therapist.  This not only speaks to the legitimacy of the program, but to our agency’s leadership and buy in, a crucial element for any agency wellness program I also discuss in my upcoming webinar, Building a Wellness Program from the Ground Up.

Some of the highlights from our conversation are:

• The growth of his agency’s wellness program, which began with the behavioral component, or in house therapists to the recent addition of the sworn section, wellness checks, training, peer support, family support, succession planning, and the importance of having a menu of services to offer employees.
• David shares the core values of the Nashville Metro PD’s wellness program: Relationships, resources, and resiliency. 

Whether you are interested in how to start a wellness program at your agency, enhance what you already have, or you are just interested to learn more, I think you’ll find a lot of great information and value in this episode. 

If you found value, please share and give us a review.  As always, if you have questions, feedback, or an idea for a future episode topic, email me at wendy@bluelineyoga.com and register to receive our upcoming free guns and yoga newsletter coming in 2024. You can sign up on the link included below.

And remember, we are better together.

LINKS:

Building a Wellness Program from the Ground Up

Side Hustles and Second Careers: Reimagining Your Professional Passion after Retirement

Nashville Police Department Professional Wellness Section

Collaborative Reform Initiative Technical Assistance Center (CRI-TAC)

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Microcast: What’s Missing from the Public Safety Conversation – My Two Cents.

What’s missing from the Public Safety Conversation – My Two Cents:

Welcome to the guns and yoga podcast.  My name is Wendy Hummell.  Today’s microcast is inspired by my belief that organizational wellness should be at the forefront of the public safety.

Lately I have been paying attention to what many of our local politicians in Wichita KS are saying on the topic of public safety, in particular the conversation surrounding staffing shortages.  It is a priority topic this campaign season and I have heard higher pay, recruiting, and retention mentioned quite a bit.

Competing for qualified applicants is a trend we see across the nation, and it’s no different for us in Kansas.  While you will never hear me argue that cops, firefighters, detention deputies, paramedics or dispatchers shouldn’t get a raise, this is just one component of a multifaceted problem. 

The landscape for public safety has changed over the past several years.  Covid and rallying cries for police reform and defunding the police in response to police shootings and high-profile cases such as George Floyd in May 2020 impacted law enforcement across the nation. 

On January 6, 2021, protestors stormed the Capitol and many of the officers working that day were injured; some lost their lives.  One of the officers who died by suicide was Jeff Smith, a DC Metro Police Officer, the first suicide death to be classified as a LODD and eligible for benefits from the PSOB or Public Safety Officers Benefits Program.  Legislation to include suicides was enacted in August 2022.   We have data that tells us suicide is the leading cause of death amongst law enforcement.  We have only begun to track this data in the past decade, so the numbers are likely higher than we know not just for cops, but other public safety professions as well.

My call to action is for community leaders and politicians to recognize that we must invest in those doing the work.  While we need to recruit, we absolutely must focus on not just retaining those workers we have, but going a step further and supporting their mental, emotional, and physical health so they want to stay and thrive in all areas of their life. 

A lofty goal I know, but I have seen too many of my friends and co-workers suffer due to stigma, lack of agency support, or lack of knowledge and limited access to resources. 

In a report done by Lexipol, “Stressed & Short-Staffed: Challenges Facing First Responders and the Impact on Community Safety” in which they surveyed 9,400 police, fire, and EMS workers the results were not suprising to those of us in the trenches, but we need to make sure this gets in front of our community leaders as well:

Here is some of the data from the report and I’ll include the links below:

• 94% of firefighters have experienced staffing challenges in the past year
• 87% of police officers work in departments that are not fully staffed based on authorized staffing numbers
• 86% of EMS professionals say their departments have experienced staffing challenges in the past three years
• 45% of police officers report that their time-off requests are being denied more often
• 67% of firefighters and 51% of EMS professionals said their stress level is negatively impacting other aspects of their health
• 68% of police officers are more concerned about on-duty safety due to short staffing
• 50% of police officers and 54% of EMS professionals plan to leave their jobs in the next 5 years

In order to get off the hamster wheel of low staffing, mandatory overtime, chronic stress, poor lifestyle habits which leads to diminished efficiency and quality of services, we need to do better.  We need full scale organizational wellness programming.  Of course we need to recruit and pay a competitive wage, but keeping people healthy and cared for so they want to stay until retirement must be considered as well.  Often the first responder culture is referred to as “toxic” and having “low morale”.  I’ve used these terms myself and retired from a career I loved sooner than I planned because of it, but we must do better.

LINKS:

Police1.com - Lexipol survey uncovers alarming staffing shortages and stress levels reported by first responders

Police1.com - Broken, dysfunctional and horrible: Kansas officers describe culture in report

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Episode 44: A Conversation (and a practice) with Jennifer Boileau - A Trauma Informed Yoga and Mindfulness Instructor

Welcome to the Guns and Yoga Podcast. Today I am sharing a conversation I had a while back with Jennifer Boileau.  It’s a bit longer than our usual podcast because in the second half Jen leads us through a practice, so keep in mind that at around the 1 hour and 10 minute mark we transition into the practice. 

Jen is a trauma informed yoga and mindfulness instructor who teaches to the first responder population.  She is married to a now retired police officer so she knows first-hand the stresses the police profession can have on the first responder, but also on the family.  Jen shares how the anxiety she felt as a result of worrying about her husband led her to take her first yoga class, and she also shares the impact his job had on their daughter. 

As I mentioned, at around the 1 hour and 10 minute mark we transition into a practice that Jen will lead which is called iRest Meditation.  It is based on an ancient practice called yoga nidra, one my favorites to both teach and practice. 

iRest which stands for Integrative restoration meditation is a 10 step protocol developed by Dr. Richard Miller, a clinical psychologist and yoga teacher.  He started the protocol with veterans returning from war in hopes to find success with a non-pharmaceutical intervention for PTSD, chronic pain, and overwhelm.  The protocol teaches you that you have everything you need within you and all 10 steps can be practiced in their entirety or can be practiced in shorter sections. 

The steps are:

1. Connect to your heartfelt desire
2. Set an intention
3. Your Inner Resource
4. Feel your body
5. Become aware of your breath
6. Welcome your emotions
7. Witness your thoughts
8. Experience joy
9. Find lasting peace
10. Reflect on your practice

I recommend finding a quiet place to either sit or lie down and enjoy this practice with Jen.

Enjoy the show. 

LINKS:

www.jenniferboileau.com

www.irest.org

Jennifer's Facebook Page

Jennifer's LinkedIn Page

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Tactical Tip Tuesday: The Intersection of Wellness, Peer Support, and Leadership

Tactical Tip Tuesday

The Intersection of Wellness, Peer Support, and Leadership

 

Today is Tactical Tip Tuesday where  I share a tip, tool, or dose of inspiration for your week.   This week I want to talk about the interconnectedness of wellness, peer support and leadership. Here are a few quotes from the show that will help sum up what this solo-cast is about:

"Life can only be learned backwards, but must be lived forwards." (Søren Kierkegaard)

"You can't pour from an empty cup."

"How great leaders inspire action." (Simon Sinek)

"What's your purpose?"

"People will forget what you said, and people will forget what you did, but people will never forget the way you made them feel." (Maya Angelou)

I hope you enjoy the show, and check us out on Instagram at: @guns_and_yoga_podcast

 

Episode #43: Catching up with Kim Colegrove – Books that Save Lives: The Mindfulness for Warriors Handbook

Today’s episode is a special one for a few reasons. I speak with a dear friend of mine, Kim Colegrove. Kim and I met back in 2017 and I am a better person today for knowing her. Kim is also the first podcast guest to come back on the show a second time, so if you missed the first episode with Kim back in 2021, I encourage you to check it out. 

In our conversation, we catch up on what she’s been up to since our first episode a few years ago.  We discuss her online training platform, Pause First Academy, the re-release of her book Mindfulness for Warriors which will now be called "The Mindfulness for Warriors Handbook", and the new book she is working on set to release in February 2024. 

Kim goes into detail about some of the courses offered on the Pause First Academy and discusses the reason she hand-picked her trainers; all either current or retired first responders with a particular skillset in personal growth, resilience, mindfulness, meditation, yoga, emotional intelligence, holistic health, leadership and more.  Some of the often overlooked “softer skills”. 

Kim has graciously provided a coupon code just for you our podcast listeners;  one month free premiere membership so you can try as many courses as you’d like.  The coupon code is listed below.

Kim also shares a story about a conversation she had at a training last year with someone who told her that her book saved his life. This conversation was the impetus for the reason for the re-release of her first book and the second book she is currently writing, Wellness - Warrior Style.

Kim and I discuss the topic of suicide, which can be difficult for some to hear; but the story of her husband’s suicide nearly 9 years ago is the reason she does what she does.  Her why can be distilled down to one thing - she doesn’t want any other family to experience what she and her family are still experiencing today. 

Of course, no conversation with Kim would be complete without some talk of meditation and mindfulness; the tool she is passionate about sharing with the first responder population.

Her book is a great start for those who want to learn more, plus she offers a free 21 meditation jump start program on the Pause First Academy website. 

Kim addresses how meditation and mindfulness have become more prevalent in recent years,  their roots in ancient warrior practice, and the amount of evidence that backs up it’s efficacy.

Kim’s ability to integrate her lifetime of accumulated practice, learning, and teaching in an easy to learn approach is what makes her unique.  At a time where there is access to so much information, Kim not only explains that meditation is the daily habit or exercise that cultivates mindfulness, a way or state of being that helps you step out of survival mode and into the present moment, but how you can apply this personally and professionally. 

KIM'S LINKS:

Facebook

Linkedin

Instagram

Pause First Academy:  Don't forget to use the discount code gunsandyoga for a free one-month premiere membership.

Guns and Yoga Podcast Episode #1:  From Pain to Purpose – Mindfulness for First Responders with Kim Colegrove

The Mindfulness for Warriors Handbook:  Stress Reduction, Trauma Recovery, and Resilience Building for First Responders" is available for pre-sale now!! Here ---> Amazon

 

Tactical Tip Tuesday: Share Your Unique Gift with the World

Tactical Tip Tuesday:

Share Your Unique Gift with the World!

Today is Tactical Tip Tuesday where  I share a tip, tool, or dose of inspiration for your week.  This week I want to talk about sharing your unique gift with the world.   

Later this week, my podcast with Kim Colegrove will be released.  She is the first guest to return to the show for a second time.  Not only is Kim a good friend, but she is a talented author and meditation teacher.  She is re-releasing her book Mindfulness for Warriors with some really cool updates, and the book will now be called the Mindfulness for Warriors Handbook. 

The inspiration for today’s episode came last week as I prepared to teach a monthly restorative yoga class.  Finding meaning in our lives has been a quest many of us have been on throughout our lives.  I first became interested in the concept of purpose during my yoga training.  Although not an exact translation, the yogis call this dharma.  Simply put, this means each of us are put on this earth for a reason or for some particular work; we are unique and the desire for the work has been put into every one of our hearts; it is our duty to listen and discover it.

Now, the path to figuring all of this out isn’t easy, its messy and is much too complicated to address in this short episode. 

Purpose is how we find meaning, and something I often talk about when addressing retirement.  But it pertains to all of us regardless of what your stage of life you are in. 

You don’t have to have it all figured out and sometimes the way in which our purpose is executed changes. 

I know some pretty amazing people; and I see something special and unique in each one of them.  Today, I encourage you to discover what your unique gift is then find a way to share it; it doesn’t have to be in a grand way; you can be a difference maker with a small gesture, a few words, or volunteering.  You can make an impact by listening to your heart, not your head.  In the book, “the top five regrets of the dying” the author identified five common themes when she asked the patients, she worked with in hospice care what they would do different or if they had any regrets.   The top regret was “I wish I had the courage to live a life true to myself, not the life others expected of me” …in other words a purpose driven life true to what THEY wanted; their hearts desire.

For me, sharing my love of yoga and integrating what I have learned into my classes is my unique gift I chose to share. 

I have friends who are talented authors, musicians, martial artists, woodworkers, and those who are teachers and chose to share what they have learned throughout their career with others.  What you share is yours to decide..It can be a creative hobby or interest or a special skillset you acquired during your career like leadership, crime scene investigation, or peer support.  It isn’t tied to our professional roles, but it can be. 

As you will hear in the upcoming podcast with Kim Colegrove, she has chosen to share her unique gift of teaching mindfulness and meditation to first responders.

What will you share?

If you’d like to explore this further, and feel a bit stuck, here are 3 self-inquiry or journaling prompts to get your started and can also access them in the show notes.

1. How did you spend your time as a child?  What did you enjoy most?
2. What lights you up as an adult?  What activities make you lose track of time?
3. What do others say to you about your talents, skills, and gifts?  What do people come to you for advice about? Are there themes and similarities?

Good luck with this process and l’d love to hear what you came up with or what you may already be sharing with the world.

If you found value in this episode, please share with someone else, subscribe to our mailing list,  or write a review.  And remember, we are better together.

"Everyone has been made for some particular work, and the desire for that work has been put into every heart" - Rumi

 

Second Mountain Masterclass Series (Part 3) - Myth of ”Strength in Suppression”, and shout out to Federal Pretrial West Texas Region

In this micro-cast we discuss the unwritten credo of "strength in suppression", which is often prevalent in first responder professions, and how it is not sustainable long term.  We also address the need for "depth work" throughout our careers, but especially as we transition to retirement which can look like; therapy, peer support, family support, spirituality, and self-care. This retiree masterclass is a call to action for you, your family, and for all first responders collectively.

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Episode #42: Financial Freedom for First Responders with Courtney from Heroes Financial Coaching

Today I speak with Courtney from Heroes Financial Coaching.  As a police and veteran wife, she is familiar with the stress of these professions and helps first responder and veteran families reduce stress due to finances.  

Courtney and her husband had years of credit card debt, car payments, and student loans, but were able to overcome their debt and purchase their dream home. 

Her goal is to help first responder families become the hero in their financial journey. She does this through one on one coaching, goal setting, and developing a plan that can lead to financial freedom, which means less stress and anxiety.

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